Hey there! This is Dan :)
I’m the one who created this website. I fought a similar battle with you before, so now I’m going to share my stories and give you several tips to help you navigate your journey.
Take your time.
When the doctor first came out with the diagnosis, it was really hard to believe. I didn't want to accept it. I felt all sorts of things: anger, fear, and sadness. All of my plans for the future were ruined. It took me a while to really understand what was happening to me.
But taking my time to face these feelings helped me get ready for what was to come. It’s important to let yourself feel these things and to know it's okay not to be okay right away.
If this also happens to you, taking a bit of time for yourself is really important. It’s a huge thing to hear, and it’s totally normal if you feel a mix of emotions. It’s okay to let yourself go through those feelings, to wonder about what’s next, and to take it slow. This time is for you to get your head around your diagnosis.
Moving at your own pace can help you face your treatment with a clearer mind. Remember, taking things step by step is key to managing what comes next.
It’s not the end
The thought of something so serious happening to me felt like too much, so, to cope, I started gathering as much information as I could about my diagnosis. I looked into what it was, what causes it, and what treatments are out there, understanding my situation as clearly as possible. Learning about the disease, its progression, and the medical terms associated with it was overwhelming at times, but it was a step I felt compelled to take.
Nevertheless, through my research, my takeaway is medical technology is continuously improving. Doctors and scientists keep finding better ways to fight cancer. Now, there might be new medicines and treatments that weren't around when I started my treatment.
This progress gives a lot of hope to people like us. It shows that things are getting better and that there might be even more options available soon. So, even though getting all this information was a lot to take in at first, it also made me feel more hopeful about the future.
You are not alone
When people found out about my condition, so many reached out to help and check on me. The flood of support from everyone was heartwarming; moreover, the outreach from those who had already journeyed through cancer resonated very deeply with me. Talking to all of them made me feel a little bit of relief and gave me a lot of hope.
Remember, you’re not alone in this. There are lots of people who’ve faced cancer and beaten it, and there are others who are fighting it right now just like you. It helps a lot to talk to them. There are groups and places online where people share their stories and support each other. Finding someone who understands what it’s like can make a big difference. You can share what you’re feeling and they can too. It’s really hard, but having friends who know what you’re dealing with can make it a bit easier.
Take your time.
When the doctor first came out with the diagnosis, it was really hard to believe. I didn't want to accept it. I felt all sorts of things: anger, fear, and sadness. All of my plans for the future were ruined. It took me a while to really understand what was happening to me.
But taking my time to face these feelings helped me get ready for what was to come. It’s important to let yourself feel these things and to know it's okay not to be okay right away.
If this also happens to you, taking a bit of time for yourself is really important. It’s a huge thing to hear, and it’s totally normal if you feel a mix of emotions. It’s okay to let yourself go through those feelings, to wonder about what’s next, and to take it slow. This time is for you to get your head around your diagnosis.
Moving at your own pace can help you face your treatment with a clearer mind. Remember, taking things step by step is key to managing what comes next.
It’s not the end
The thought of something so serious happening to me felt like too much, so, to cope, I started gathering as much information as I could about my diagnosis. I looked into what it was, what causes it, and what treatments are out there, understanding my situation as clearly as possible. Learning about the disease, its progression, and the medical terms associated with it was overwhelming at times, but it was a step I felt compelled to take.
Nevertheless, through my research, my takeaway is medical technology is continuously improving. Doctors and scientists keep finding better ways to fight cancer. Now, there might be new medicines and treatments that weren't around when I started my treatment.
This progress gives a lot of hope to people like us. It shows that things are getting better and that there might be even more options available soon. So, even though getting all this information was a lot to take in at first, it also made me feel more hopeful about the future.
You are not alone
When people found out about my condition, so many reached out to help and check on me. The flood of support from everyone was heartwarming; moreover, the outreach from those who had already journeyed through cancer resonated very deeply with me. Talking to all of them made me feel a little bit of relief and gave me a lot of hope.
Remember, you’re not alone in this. There are lots of people who’ve faced cancer and beaten it, and there are others who are fighting it right now just like you. It helps a lot to talk to them. There are groups and places online where people share their stories and support each other. Finding someone who understands what it’s like can make a big difference. You can share what you’re feeling and they can too. It’s really hard, but having friends who know what you’re dealing with can make it a bit easier.
Take your time.
When the doctor first came out with the diagnosis, it was really hard to believe. I didn't want to accept it. I felt all sorts of things: anger, fear, and sadness. All of my plans for the future were ruined. It took me a while to really understand what was happening to me.
But taking my time to face these feelings helped me get ready for what was to come. It’s important to let yourself feel these things and to know it's okay not to be okay right away.
If this also happens to you, taking a bit of time for yourself is really important. It’s a huge thing to hear, and it’s totally normal if you feel a mix of emotions. It’s okay to let yourself go through those feelings, to wonder about what’s next, and to take it slow. This time is for you to get your head around your diagnosis.
Moving at your own pace can help you face your treatment with a clearer mind. Remember, taking things step by step is key to managing what comes next.
It’s not the end
The thought of something so serious happening to me felt like too much, so, to cope, I started gathering as much information as I could about my diagnosis. I looked into what it was, what causes it, and what treatments are out there, understanding my situation as clearly as possible. Learning about the disease, its progression, and the medical terms associated with it was overwhelming at times, but it was a step I felt compelled to take.
Nevertheless, through my research, my takeaway is medical technology is continuously improving. Doctors and scientists keep finding better ways to fight cancer. Now, there might be new medicines and treatments that weren't around when I started my treatment.
This progress gives a lot of hope to people like us. It shows that things are getting better and that there might be even more options available soon. So, even though getting all this information was a lot to take in at first, it also made me feel more hopeful about the future.
You are not alone
When people found out about my condition, so many reached out to help and check on me. The flood of support from everyone was heartwarming; moreover, the outreach from those who had already journeyed through cancer resonated very deeply with me. Talking to all of them made me feel a little bit of relief and gave me a lot of hope.
Remember, you’re not alone in this. There are lots of people who’ve faced cancer and beaten it, and there are others who are fighting it right now just like you. It helps a lot to talk to them. There are groups and places online where people share their stories and support each other. Finding someone who understands what it’s like can make a big difference. You can share what you’re feeling and they can too. It’s really hard, but having friends who know what you’re dealing with can make it a bit easier.
Take your time.
When the doctor first came out with the diagnosis, it was really hard to believe. I didn't want to accept it. I felt all sorts of things: anger, fear, and sadness. All of my plans for the future were ruined. It took me a while to really understand what was happening to me.
But taking my time to face these feelings helped me get ready for what was to come. It’s important to let yourself feel these things and to know it's okay not to be okay right away.
If this also happens to you, taking a bit of time for yourself is really important. It’s a huge thing to hear, and it’s totally normal if you feel a mix of emotions. It’s okay to let yourself go through those feelings, to wonder about what’s next, and to take it slow. This time is for you to get your head around your diagnosis.
Moving at your own pace can help you face your treatment with a clearer mind. Remember, taking things step by step is key to managing what comes next.
It’s not the end
The thought of something so serious happening to me felt like too much, so, to cope, I started gathering as much information as I could about my diagnosis. I looked into what it was, what causes it, and what treatments are out there, understanding my situation as clearly as possible. Learning about the disease, its progression, and the medical terms associated with it was overwhelming at times, but it was a step I felt compelled to take.
Nevertheless, through my research, my takeaway is medical technology is continuously improving. Doctors and scientists keep finding better ways to fight cancer. Now, there might be new medicines and treatments that weren't around when I started my treatment.
This progress gives a lot of hope to people like us. It shows that things are getting better and that there might be even more options available soon. So, even though getting all this information was a lot to take in at first, it also made me feel more hopeful about the future.
You are not alone
When people found out about my condition, so many reached out to help and check on me. The flood of support from everyone was heartwarming; moreover, the outreach from those who had already journeyed through cancer resonated very deeply with me. Talking to all of them made me feel a little bit of relief and gave me a lot of hope.
Remember, you’re not alone in this. There are lots of people who’ve faced cancer and beaten it, and there are others who are fighting it right now just like you. It helps a lot to talk to them. There are groups and places online where people share their stories and support each other. Finding someone who understands what it’s like can make a big difference. You can share what you’re feeling and they can too. It’s really hard, but having friends who know what you’re dealing with can make it a bit easier.
Prepare for your Journey
In general, the journey consists of these three things:
Choosing the right
treatment
Every treatment option comes with its own benefit and risk. You can take the first step of understanding them here, but don’t forget to recheck with your medical care provider.
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Keeping the right mindset
It's hard to keep your mind clear during times like this. Sometimes you hear good news, and sometimes things don't turn out the way you expect. I will share my experience dealing with this roller coaster of feelings.
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Disclaimer
This website is created by cancer survivor for sharing purposes; this is not intended to replace doctor's / psychiatrist’s opinion.
Seek professional help if needed.
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